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Sunday, 22 November 2009

  • Time to buy food for Thanksgiving!  Turkey and ham are required at our household.  Mom , Jane, and Ann are bringing dishes, so the main things we are responsible for involve meat!   Chae and I just got home from Wal-Mart – where I hate to shop now that they have completely rearranged the store to make it the MOST inconvenient shopping place in the world.   I guess a lot of people had the same idea to buy Thanksgiving essentials today, because we were playing bumper-carts most of the time.  I get irritated very easily, but Chae keeps telling me to “just go with it, Beverly.”  Who would have EVER thought that HE would be the laid-back one?!

     

    Tomorrow, I think I am having lunch with Ellen and our Komen grantees from the Alabama Department of Public Health.  Not sure, so I hope Ellen will call me early!  Otherwise, I will be looking in the file cabinets at work for old crackers or something.

     

Saturday, 21 November 2009

  • One of my longest-term breast cancer sister survivors (thanks Mary!!!) sent me this link:  Please watch and share with others!  I found it to be very touching, just realizing how many people love us, as cancer survivors; also fun, amazing, and just really nice!  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OEdVfyt-mLw

     

    Chae and I have had a very nice day.  For some reason, HE got the cleaning bug, and cleaned out the t-shirts in his closet this morning.  So of course, I had to do the same, because there is something just wrong about his section of the closet looking WAY neater than mine.  Especially since he only gets about ¼ of the total space (something he reminds me about a lot).  We now have a pile of t-shirts – everything from Alabama t-shirts to beach t-shirts – to send to Hannah Home.  Jane – I saved the Alabama Equestrian Team t-shirt for you!!!!  [Back when Jane was a freshman at UA, there was no equestrian team, so she started one!!!!  That’s my girl!]

     

    Alabama had a practice game today – well, it was a real game, but it was against UT-Chattanooga, and the final score was 45 to 0.  So it was a practice game.  They have to get ready for the BIG game next Friday against Auburn. 

     

    I’m putting together Erin’s care package.  I went to Pier I and found some neat lavender scented roses that you put in your bath and they dissolve.  Also a lavender scented eye pillow.  I have sent her my “How to Do Chemo In Style for Erin” email, and she already is working on buying the essentials that I recommended.   I had several hats that I never wore - and I'm sending 3-4 of them to Erin - she will like the brown baseball-style with sequins!  I learned today that one of Chae’s cousins was diagnosed with breast cancer 2 weeks ago.  She has already started chemotherapy.  I hate cancer.

     

Friday, 20 November 2009

  • Can’t believe it is Friday again – so soon!  Chae is back from Wyoming, or wherever it is that he was – I can barely keep up with my schedule, much less his.  Claudia is happy now that we are both here.  I’m putting together a care package to send to Erin in Atlanta.  She will start chemotherapy on November 30, and I have some tips for “doing chemo in style,” in addition to the goodies I’m sending.   “Doing chemo in style” involves a soft blankie, socks with grippers on the bottom, lavender lotion, iPod, good luck charms that people have sent to you, and at least one good book that doesn’t require a lot of thinking.  What actually happens is this:  you get all comfy with the blankie, put on the gripper socks, because you WILL have to go to the bathroom during the chemo time but having shoes on just seems too uncomfortable, lean your recliner back and pop out the footrest, look at all your good luck charms and think about the people who sent them to you, listen to the iPod (especially if someone who loves you has made you a Chemo Mix), start to read the book…..then you conk out like a burned out lightbulb.

      

  • Heart-Breaking

    Stefanie Spielman, 42 year old mom, married to Chris Spielman (professional football player).  I heard/saw her speak at the Livestrong Summit at Ohio State University a couple of years ago.  Stefanie lost her fight this evening.  This photo was taken at their Race for the Cure in May of this year.  Stefanie is wearing a wig in honor of another young woman/friend of hers who had died.  The girl is one of Stefanie's daughters; the man in the back is her husband Chris. 

    Stefanie Spielman komen2009 1967-2009 RIP

     

    http://www.dispatch.com/live/content/local_news/stories/2009/11/19/stefanie-spielman-loses-cancer-battle.html.  Her daughter's tears...oh my gosh.  I really hate cancer.

     

     

     

Thursday, 19 November 2009

  • Chae is out of town tonight so I got to watch the finale of Project Runway!  I don’t get away with watching things like that when he is here unless I want to go to the bedroom and watch it on the little TV.  I truly don’t “get” the clothes they design, but the show is fun to watch.

     

    I had planned to go to a Komen meeting tonight, but when I got home this afternoon, I didn’t feel 100% well.  I just couldn’t get warm – a sure sign that I have a temperature.  However, I dug the thermometer out of a bin in the bathroom and the temperature was normal.  Anyway, since Chae is out of town, I decided to just stay home with Claudia just in case.  Now that it is 10 PM, I feel absolutely fine, so it was a false alarm.

     

    It is nearly panic time!  Christmas has sneaked up on me big time this year.  I have a few things already and a couple of things ordered that are on the way, but other than that, I am unprepared!  Chae and C.J. are the hardest to get presents for.  Any ideas?

     

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  • janecash
    Hello, Beverly...Check in most every evening to hear from you. Am so glad that you have that wonderful team of docs...Thanks for taking the time to keep us posted. Just wanting you to know I am here...and sending lots of prayers and postive energy your way...Jane Cash
  • fanofbev
    Good morning, Bev. Like janbolla@yahoo.com, I too have had a problem with only a partial posting of a chatboard message and another not "taking" at all. (Am letting you know this so you can develop your skills in "tech support"... In the interim, am awaiting a response from Xanga.) Serio
  • janbolla
    Beverly, I am really doing something wrong to post to you. You are getting only half my message. My e-mail is janbolla@yahoo.com
  • janbolla
    Dear Beverly, I am so glad that you make postings. It keeps me praying where I should expend effort. I am packing for Virginia now. The Pathobiology panel awaits me. Five of my 13 proposals are expedited out. Actually, I think that it is a good thing. I hope not to get stuck in an airport somewhere
  • geoghega
    SENDING LOVE AND A HUG. Cindy G.
  • fanofbev
    Hello, Bev. This is a "voice" from your past. Well, okay, not really THAT long ago. (But, have been wanting to do that ever since I was a wee one watching celebrities rekindling early memories on the show "This Is Your Life".) So, lady-with-the-new-mattress-guaranteed-to-last-for-the-next-decade
  • Mary2126
    You are on my mind this morning. Hope all went well with the surgery. xxoooo, ME
  • Mary2126
    Bev, We just finished our call---missed you being there but truly understand and support your decission to take care of BEV. Hugs, prayers, good thoughts are all sent to you with much love, Mary E.